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July 18th, 2010

#34

Hello everyone once again! We have been pretty distracted lately… and it was all the World Cup’s fault. I get a little carried on… and got the Boy hooked up on it too. He even wore my country’s t-shirt and was online in every single match (even the really early ones) so we could watch it together (too bad that he had 5 seconds delay, so he already knew when there was a goal cause I was celebrating!). There was even a match during his birthday. Poor Boy, the things he does for me.

~ Girl

April 10th, 2010

#27

Okay I was gonna post about the sad stuff that has been going on but this is too much to ressist (I guess that’s a good sign).

The boy is a very messy person. VERY. And I’m the exact opposite. He leaves things on the floor, the only thing you’ll see on the floor with me are shoes if I haven’t got the time to put them in the closet. He leaves piles of clothes while I put them tidly in the hamper. Bags, dishes! Agh! Ever since we started talking, while we were just friends, I encouraged him to be more organized. What happens is that he’s organized when he’s in a good mood, but if he’s stressed out, his place starts to get messy. So I gave him a deadline: his room had to be Girl’s cleaning standards by Saturday. Right now I’m watching him on Skype vacuuming his floor, and it’s so hypnotic, lol. He’s proud of himself and I am too, for we can see his floor now.

One problem though. He can’t remember where he put his passport *facepalm*. We hope he didn’t lose it as it had the Customs stamps, and as people would agree, those have a lot of sentimental value!

I can say we have been working on the stress and arguments. We do wanna show that all couples have their good and bad times, there’s no point in denying that (in our opinion, saying otherwise is a delusion). The difference is how much effort they both put in fixing that. And we both put a lot because we’re very stubborn! On a side note, a comment from our last post left us a bit confused. “Sounds like you both need to make more of an effort to make this a permanent thing”. We weren’t quite sure what you meant by that, but if you mean being able to visit each other, we sure are doing a huge effort and sacrifices for that. It’s just not easy when each roundtrip could go for about 1,500-2,000 dollars… If only we would have safe teletransportation available!

Girl.

April 3rd, 2010

Learning from misakes

One thing that these last few weeks have taught me, is that you can never be too careful when it comes to the ones you love. I have said some pretty hurtful things, and I have let myself down, as well as her. Some things can not be forgiven, and some things just scar too deep to let go.

Please learn from my mistake; you have to think about the things you want to say, every word of it. Because if you don’t mean exactly what the words you’re typing, or saying out loud, DON’T SAY THEM! You may not know how much it will hurt your partner.

I am so so sorry my love, I will not let you down like that again.

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On a lighter note, I might be getting a better paying job here soon. Also, she finally got her degree. Congrats Girl!!! I am sorry I couldn’t be there for that. If my job works out, I will be able to see you more than once a year *crosses fingers*. Wish me luck.

Boy.

March 13th, 2010

#25

It was one of those weeks again, where the only solution would be just hiding from the world. The bad news weren’t directly related to our relationship, but they affectus being physically together.

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The only good thing that happened in these past 3 days was that our Notebook didn’t get lost in the mail and he got it. We were worried about that.

We also thank you all for reading and commenting, we smile every time we see a new comment on the site. And some have been picking up some (not so hidden) clues. We’ll tell more of our story soon (as much as we can while still being anon), as some people have been asking for how long we’ve been together and stuff like that.

Girl.

December 27th, 2009

See you later…

And the boy left on Saturday back home. I’m very happy for the time we got to spend together (and what a great time it was, I’ll be posting about it later) but I am also filled with great sadness. I guess it affected me more than him cause I’m the one who didn’t travel, the one who got used to him sleeping on her bed, waking the other person up if they were still sleeping when we were up… I have to bring myself to get used again to just see his image on my monitor, without being able to touch or kiss him, and for only a couple of hours each day. Yes, it was all worth it, but that doesn’t make the departure less sad. I just hope that soon enough we’ll have time to spend together once more, I just don’t think it’ll be soon enough for me.

I miss you already.

Girl.